Sunday, May 24, 2009

KISS FATHER AND MOTHER

Today i would like to tALK about KISS..
ALL of you have kissed your Father and Mother?
I just want to share....
i always talk about this with my friends..
maybe, if we talk about kiss our mother, there is no problem..
how about kiss our Father??????
my friend from UPSI (girl) said, "NO". She said it's something shamefull because she was 22 years old now.....it's right????
i said..what should we try??
She said..." NO"..SHE CAN'T
My friends from Teachers Training College at Melaka also said "NO" and " Never"
her mother was died..One day, she returned home..she looked her father like lonely..
when she want back to Melaka...she was kissed her father. Her father was "shed tears'.
It means..her father cried...
WHAT DO YOU THINK?????
heheheh.........lets think about it together..


From; Mohd Abdul Halim Bin Mohd Ariffin

10 comments:

dbest09 said...

salam...

i think its ok if we want to kiss our parents despite of mother or father..

i also kiss my parents in their cheeks and it ok for me ..as a daughter, i always kiss my parents, when i met them at home or when i come back to UKM.it just to show that we love them a lot and i do not feel ashamed or shy when i do this to my father or mother...beside, i also kiss my younger brother...and i love my family very much..i miss them a lot in Kelantan..

Contrary with your post, i think her father shed his tears because he felt that someone still love him even his wife was dead..and he still have a son and daughter which can take care of him..or he still a family to take care although his wife was not beside him anymore until the end..
that's my opinion rrr...hehehh..

-haslini binti mohd nor-

dbest09 said...
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dbest09 said...

~ NURUL HAIDA BINTI MOHD NAWAI ~

wawawa..... who's girl UPSI..?
hehehe...just kidding..
about kiss father, i think his father feel touched when her child kiss he because previously, his child never kiss he. My opinion, no matter son kiss mother or daughter kiss father, i think that situation would be fine and not illegal. Maybe, they feel shy. If my father not yet pass away, i also kiss he as a child and i'm respect to him as my father, But my father pass away while i'm 7 years old. i'm really miss him and want to kiss him like kiss my mom...

dbest09 said...

salam..
oh really haida..
i also sympathy to you...
i don't know..about your father..but don't worry. may god bless him in barzakh..Amin..

futhermore..
do you want to join Perdana in Cameron??heheh

dbest09 said...

ops...sory haida!!!i didn't means it. i just want 2 share. dont wory, you still can do smthg for him..pray to Allah

-halim-

dbest09 said...

to Lini..
Sorry, i don't want join to Cameron Highland because my badget very critical at this semester..huhuhu
You can be promote to another friend, maybe they interested to join its.
But, you must join also before you invite a person...hihihi..

To LINI AND HALIM : don't worry about comment concern my father.. Thanks because pray to him... thanks a lot...

- HAIDA -

Anonymous said...

kiss father and mother is something usually to me. why would we get shamed about to kiss them??. They are our parents and they are only one that we have in dis world. Nobody can replace them in our heart right!!!....i love them more than my life...

~hidayah~

dbest09 said...

yaa.. talk about father & mother.. i easily touching bout it. I really love & miss them! my family was not big.. i only have my sister. while i`m the youngest. can u imagine how small my family is? huhu.. they are my love.. kiss them is not big issue.. further more, kiss our father.. mine also kiss my father sometime.. & the feeling is so touching.. i`m sure that all of u do it frequently right..

- siti katijah -

dbest09 said...

yes..you are right. i also touched with it. I start kiss my mother and father while i first year..heheh.so nice!!!maybe we look our father like no felling. but try you kiss them, you will kwon what would happen.hehehehe..i love my father and mother

-halim-

dbest09 said...

Waalaikumsalam .
Actually is not a problem to kiss our parent.

Islam also teach us to love our parent .Kiss is a one way to show our love to them because all the sacrifice that they made for us start from a baby untill now .But its have a ways and a limit on it .

Example as a muslim we have a islamic manner or polite, of couse its have a limit when we were interaction with others including our parents, when we become adult kiss at the cheek is allowed but in mouth is not suitable .Its because to dodge in a bad things.
Its a different between islam and west and other religion .Islam always teach us a manner in every ways in our life .

Maybe we will shy at a first kiss but after this not . Kiss them before you have a chance. I also kiss my father ,and when I at secondary school I become shy to kiss him .After my father were sick I started to kiss him again until the end of his live .



Basyirah bt Hj Hassan